AI as a Colleague

AI as a Colleague Has Become a Natural Part of My Everyday Life

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AI as a colleague has become a natural part of my everyday life. It helps me spell correctly, organize my thoughts, and, honestly, with almost everything. It helps me compare washing machines, sort through the many ideas in my head, work with SEO and keyphrases, and shape my blog the way I see it in my mind.

AI’s contribution: Full marks.

A Warm Evening Under the Pavilion

Right now I’m sitting under the pavilion writing. It’s hot—very hot—and I’ve closed out the sun so I can sit in the shade and actually see my screen. Beside me is a jug of ice water, and my phone is lying on the table.

Somewhere in another garden, someone is grilling. I’m sitting with my feet tucked up on the outdoor sofa, my laptop on my knees. Here, AI can’t do a single thing for my experience or for the smell drifting through the evening air.

AI’s contribution: No help at all.

AI as a Colleague Helps Me Create Structure

AI and I have worked hard lately. We’ve been restructuring my blog and creating different pages to make it easier to navigate, both for you as a reader and for me as the writer.

Not every post is a gem, but some of them are. I don’t want those to disappear among hundreds of other posts. I want them to be easy to find, both for my readers and for myself.

I’m also trying to build a knowledge library filled with tools and texts based on Compassion, but also on what life itself has taught me. A place where thoughts, experiences, and practical tools can stay together and continue helping people long after a blog post has been published.

AI is an amazing colleague—as long as I’m the one holding the reins. Whenever I work on my blog, I’m reminded of how much AI as a colleague helps me keep track of all my ideas.

AI’s contribution: Full marks.

Looking Ahead to Tomorrow

Our motorhome is packed for tomorrow’s trip. The big day is almost here, and I feel both excited and a little afraid.

What if something goes wrong? What if I make things worse instead of better?

This is where I have to stop my thoughts. I have to let time reveal what tomorrow will bring instead of worrying about things that may never happen.

Neither you nor I know anything about the future.

My greatest wish is that this will be a wonderful trip. That my grandchildren will enjoy it, that we adults will feel our time together was meaningful, and that this weekend will bring us a little closer to one another. That we’ll create memories to carry with us for years to come.

Sometimes, time spent together is what matters most.

AI? No help here. My husband is much better at packing. AI might have been able to make a packing list, but that’s about it.

AI’s contribution: My husband wins this round.

The Only Person I Can Control

I’m so afraid that something will go wrong. At the same time, I know that the only person I can control is myself.

I have my hopes and my vision of how this weekend could turn out. But I can’t change other people. That’s their responsibility, just as taking responsibility for myself is mine.

I want things to go well. I want us to laugh together, create new memories, and leave old hurts behind, even if only for a little while.

Then I have to let go of everything else.

The good things in life can’t be forced. They grow when people are allowed to meet each other just as they are.

Well, we have the very best intentions. What tomorrow will actually bring, I simply don’t know.

AI can’t help me here either. It doesn’t know how I feel. It might suggest ways to distract myself, but I’ve learned to stay with my emotions. I dare to feel them.

AI’s contribution: My job ends here. This is where people have to do the work.

The Most Important Part of the Trip

I’m really looking forward to discovering Astrid Lindgren’s World together with my grandchildren. I can’t wait to see little one experience Emil of Lönneberga and Pippi Longstocking through his own eyes.

It will also be wonderful to have our foster boy with us. He’s older than the younger children, but I hope he’ll find something special about the day and feel that he’s an important part of it.

Even our teenage foster girl wanted to come along, even though she visited three years ago. That alone makes me happy.

Maybe that’s what matters most. Not that everything turns out perfectly, but that we spend a day together—a day we’ll remember and perhaps talk about long after we’ve returned home.

AI doesn’t belong here. This is where family matters. AI is a colleague, not family.

AI’s contribution: My job ends here. This is where people have to do the work.

This Is Where AI Reaches Its Limit

No matter how much AI helps me with structure, spelling, planning, and everything else, there are things it will never be able to do.

It cannot make tomorrow a good day.

It can help us find the way there—or rather, Google Maps can—but once we arrive, AI is no longer in charge of what happens.

Then it’s up to us.

AI’s contribution: Google Maps takes over.

We’re the ones who need to meet, laugh, listen to each other, and do our very best. Together, we create the memories our children and grandchildren will carry with them.

Perhaps that’s where the real boundary lies. AI can help me with many things, but people still have to create what truly matters.

AI cannot live life for us.

We have to do that ourselves.

And honestly, I think that’s much better.

Imagine how dull life would be if it were only about recording experiences instead of actually living them.

That’s where life is found—not in technology, but in the moments we share with one another.

AI’s contribution: This is where people have to do the work.

Between the Lines– AI as a Colleague

Many people seem afraid that AI will take over our lives. I’ve discovered something quite different. AI can help me organize my thoughts, but it cannot feel the joy of a child’s laughter, the worry before an important day, or the warmth of a meaningful meeting. That’s why I’m not afraid of technology. I know it can never replace what makes us human.

Reflection – AI as a Colleague

The more I use AI, the clearer its limits become. It helps me think more clearly, write better, and keep my projects organized. But it can never live my life for me. Life isn’t found in technology—it’s found in experiences, relationships, and memories we create together. Maybe that’s why tomorrow still feels so important. It can’t be programmed. It has to be lived.

I believe AI as a colleague will continue helping me in everyday life. But life itself must always be lived by people.

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• How do you use AI in your everyday life?
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• What matters most to you—technology or the people behind it?

Carina Ikonen Nilsson

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I use AI every day, mainly through ChatGPT by OpenAI.