Courage doesn’t always mean skydiving or plunging into an ice hole. Sometimes it’s about the small steps – like standing up from the breakfast table, crossing a row of cobblestones, and daring to say “Excuse me” to a neighbor at the campsite.

Läs det här på Svenska ->När mod möter en Amerikansk husvagn på camping, ett samtal med mod.

That moment, with an American caravan, a German neighbor, and my own shaky English, became the beginning of a memory that still makes my heart beat a little faster.


Breakfast and the Embarrassment Pillow

It was yesterday morning. There I sat at the breakfast table, spoonful after spoonful of my muesli, while gathering my courage. My eyes landed on our neighbor’s caravan – a bold creation I just had to capture in a photo.

When I told my husband my idea, he looked at me and shook his head:
“No, no. This will be embarrassing. I’m going inside the motorhome – you’ll have to speak English, and you’ll just feel silly.”

Our youngest son nodded in agreement.

But I brushed off their words. Inside, I fueled my courage:
“This will be easy. Talking English with a German can’t be that hard – they’re not always fluent either. I might even speak it better than him.”

So there I sat, chewing the last bite of my muesli, convinced this would go well. When I stood up, I caught in the corner of my eye how my husband and son slipped into the safety behind the motorhome door.

Suddenly, I was left standing alone beside my chair. My heart was pounding, my pulse rising – but the courage was still there. It was now or never. The thought that I spoke better English than a German carried me all the way across the little cobblestone border. And while I crossed, I realized this could be one of those small memories you carry with you – the morning when an American caravan at a campsite required a tiny spark of courage.


Panic and the American Accent

“Excuse me.” No reaction.
I tried again: “Excuse me, Mr…”

Then a man about my age peeked out of the caravan and answered with a friendly “Hello.”

I felt confident and rather pleased with my English… until he opened his mouth again. Out came fluent English with a pure American accent. My first reaction? Panic. I stood there, mouth slightly open, wanting to turn on my heel and walk away.

But I stayed. He smiled, and his voice was warm. At the very moment when my courage had sunk to the bottom of me, it found a second chance.


A Caravan with a Story

He invited me inside his caravan. The interior was riveted together, solid and well thought out. He spoke with love in his voice, and despite the accent that had frightened me at first, his English was easy to follow.

He explained how he had replaced the upper section of the caravan, sharing both technical details and history. Cars were his passion – especially American classics. At home in Germany, he owned a vintage treasure he drove whenever he was there. Here in Sweden, he had a newer car, but he traveled around to spot American beauties.

I told him that in Sweden, almost every small village has at least one American classic hidden in a garage. In fact, there are about 300,000 American vintage cars in Sweden – more per capita than anywhere else, even the USA. He smiled and agreed: for him, Sweden was a goldmine for anyone who loves cars.


Courage Looks Different

I asked if he wanted to be in the photo, but that was where his limit was – he politely declined. Yet his eyes sparkled when he talked about his cars, his voice carrying the enthusiasm of a teenager in love.

I admitted that I had thought speaking English would be easy. He laughed kindly and revealed that he had lived in the USA for three years – that’s why the language came so naturally to him. Then he added, gently:
“But people our age – we speak in a way that we can always understand each other.”

His words strengthened me. Maybe next time, I’ll dare to speak English again.

And the caravan? It was truly something. The back could be opened, revealing a bed. When folded up, there was enough space for two motorcycles inside.

Now, as I write this on the blog, I realize how brave that small act actually was. I’m proud I did it. For someone else, it might not have seemed like courage at all – but courage looks different for each of us.


A First Glimpse of the American Caravan

An American caravan at the campsite – bold and full of character.
En första glimt av den amerikanska husvagnen på campingen – ståtlig och fylld av karaktär.

    The Riveted Interior

    Riveted details inside the American caravan – craftsmanship that gave it unique charm.
    Popnitad insida – hantverk som ger husvagnen sin speciella charm.

    A Caravan with Room for Motorcycles

    The back of the caravan opening up – space for both a bed and two motorcycles.
    Bakluckan som rymmer både säng och plats för motorcyklar.
    Alt text: The back of the caravan opening up – space for both a bed and two motorcycles.

    Between the Lines

    This encounter became more than just a chat about cars. It reminded me that courage doesn’t always come in grand gestures. Sometimes, it’s just saying “Excuse me,” staying even when panic rises – and discovering that the world opens up when you dare.


    Popular Posts Right Now on the Blog:


    Questions for You

    • When was the last time you took a small step that felt big?
    • What does courage mean to you in your daily life?

    I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments below.


    Support My Writing

    If you’d like to support my writing, you can do so here:
    PayPal – support Malix.se


    Subscribe to My Blog

    Click here to follow Malix.se


    Carina Ikonen Nilsson

    “Yesterday has already settled down into history, tomorrow waits further ahead. But right now – this is where life happens.” – Carina Ikonen Nilsson


    Upptäck mer från Malix.se

    Prenumerera för att få de senaste inläggen skickade till din e-post.